Don\'t Contact Me Directly Because I Will Not Reply. Send Your Questions 2 My Father At Inshallah_jenna[at]yahoo

Female

Single

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1.57m - 5 foot 2

59kg - 130lb - 9 stone 4

American (US)

1/2 black and 1/2 asian...(far east asian, not south east asian) ;)

High School

General Studies

Unemployed

With my Parents

United States

I hope to make Hajj one day inshallah (I have made Umrah once with my family. We visited Medina and prayed in the Prophet\'s (pbuh) masjid as well.) I LOVE Medina. I want to go back there inshallah. I would like to visit Malaysia, Morocco, Maldives, Syria, Jordan and Turkey with my future husband...it would be nice if my family could join us too :-)

Sleeping lol, surfing the internet, listening to Quran and Islamic nasheed, babysitting, figuring out new things on the computer, baking, cooking

shopping

No

Ahlus Sunnah

•Daughter of converts •Pray 5 times a day, fast in Ramadan, etc. •Wear abaya, hijab and niqab Alhamdulillah •Understand the rights of the parents, husband, children, etc •Understand Hijrah (and some of the hardships/tests that come with it). •Try to read Quran, an Islamic book and listen to an Islamic lecture every Friday *I am VERY shy until I get to know a person really well. I am NOT willing to relocate YET. I definitely will NOT relocate to any non-Muslim country in the future inshallah.

Marriage Partner

Yes, maybe

Assalaamu alaikum brothers,

This is a general message that I 'm sending because I am very busy and don't have time to reply to everyone who doesn't fit the criteria we're looking for. For some reason a lot of brothers tend to miss these points.

1) He is not on hijrah

2) He is modern-day "Salafee." (madkhali, pseudo/fake salafee)

3) He is not able to relocate to Qatar (He MUST be able to come to Qatar and stay for 2 years AFTER marriage so that we can monitor the new marriage to make sure everything is going well. He MUST be IN QATAR.

4) He is over the age of 33 (my daughter specifically mentioned that she wants the brother to be between 20-33 years old).

If the brother is -

NOT on hijrah,

Is one who brands himself "salafee" and upholds the modern-day salafee aqeedah,

Is NOT able to come to Qatar and stay here for 2 years AFTER marriage,

or is over the age of 33,

and still insists on sending messages, he will NOT get a reply.

Your brother in Islam,
Abu Jenna

----P.S. DO NOT CONTACT MY DAUGHTER IF YOU DON'T GET A REPLY FROM ME, HER FATHER.----

A Muslim brother (between the ages of 20-33) who is trying to practice all aspects of his deen and knows the rights of his parents, wife, children, guests, the Ummah etc...

*He MUST be PATIENT and understanding... because I am young, a virgin and inexperienced in dealing with men.

*He must understand the concept of hijrah feesabilillah and currently BE on hijrah.

*any brother who is interested in me will have to relocate to Qatar for at least 2 years, so that my parents can monitor the new marriage to make sure everything is going well inshallah.

DO NOT CONTACT ME if you are a so-called "Salafee" (Pseudo, Neo, Madkhalee), Sufi, or Shite,etc  You WILL NOT GET A REPLY IF YOU'RE ANY ONE OF THESE.

(I hope brother "A" doesn't mind me using some of this...)DO NOT CONTACT ME, if your definition of following Quran and Sunnah is determined solely by the following:

1. That I have to describe myself as Salafee

2.That I have to BLINDLY follow and TAKE from Sheikh Rabee Madkhali, Ubaid Jabiri etc.

3.That I have to use certain sites such as troid, spubs, salafitalk, etc.

4. That I have to label my fellow brothers and sisters as sururee, etc



5. That our brothers and sisters in Palestine (gaza massacre) and other places are being punished due to bidah

6. That I should give my brothers a hard time about not having a beard or wearing their pants below their ankles

7. That I make it Fardh for my women to wear Niqab and gloves and cover one eye

8. That I must bury my head in the sand like an ostrich (turn a blind eye to) all the atrocities that are being committed against Muslims all over the world using the excuse, "Just worry about yourself and your family."

9. That I have to turn my Muslim brothers and sisters over to authorities for practicing (according to the Prophet pbuh), the best struggle which is to speak a word of truth against a tyrannical ruler.

10. That I have to be harsh with my Muslim brothers and sisters, but soft with the tyrants and make a thousand excuses for them.


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Bad habits I could not tolerate


~conceited (self-centered)

~selfish (doesn't want to spend on his family or his brothers and sisters in Islam)

~back-stabber (whether it be towards his family or friends)

~show-off

~disrespectful towards parents/elders (whether his own or not)

~Talking too much, but not listening enough. Communication has to go both ways.

~the "I can see you only when I need you" type.

~ A know-it-all.

*Plz do not contact me if you're living in a war zone (like Pakistan, Afghanistan, Palestine as well as some other muslim countries)... the widows, orphans and other single sisters THERE need you. It might be more pleasing to Allah if you help our Muslim sisters and their children over there. The rewards for helping them are tremendous.

Sahl ibn Sa'd (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Holy Prophet Muhammad (may Allah's blessings and peace be upon him) said, "Myself and someone who takes care of an orphan, will be together in Paradise like this," and he raised his forefinger and middle finger jointly, leaving space between them (to show how close they will be in Paradise). (Bukhari)

Narrated Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him): Prophet Muhammad (may Allah's blessings and peace be upon him) said, "The one who looks after a widow or a poor person is like a Mujahid (warrior) who fights for Allah's Cause, or like him who performs prayers all the night and fasts all the days." (Bukhari and Muslim)

*Plz be patient if u don't get a reply right away...as I have a lot of brothers sending messages...jazaakumallahu khairan. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~No offense brothers, but if you’re a passport holder of a country that does not allow you to travel freely to any country you want and whenever you want, please do not contact me.

I want to be able to travel through Allah’s earth for Islamic purposes… like

* Visiting my parents incase my future husband and I live in a different country.

* Doing dawah to my non-Muslim relatives.

*Seeing the final fate of those of flourished before.

*I was born free and not as a captive…Allah, THE CREATOR says to travel throughout the land. So, for this reason, I REFUSE to be restricted from traveling.

“Travel about the Earth and see the final fate of the evil-doers." (Surat an-Naml, 69)

“Travel about the Earth and see the final fate of the deniers." (Surat al-Anam, 11)

“Travel about the Earth and see the final fate of those who flourished before. Most of them were idolaters." (Surat ar-Rum, 42)

Also, I don’t want to live in oppressive countries (for example: Algeria, Tunisia, etc) where muslims are prevented from fulfilling their obligations in Islam (i.e. women wearing hijab).

I will not reply to anyone whose situation is like that mentioned above because my father and I are very busy and we don’t have a lot of time.

My advice would be for you to watch this video and use your imagination. ;) We tie our camel THEN put our trust in Allah. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX-kwYmq_8U

I ask Allah to make a way out for the brothers and sisters in such a terrible situation. Ameen! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


The Mouse Trap

 

A farmer and his wife just came back home from doing some grocery shopping. While unpacking their shopping bags, a Mouse was carefully observing their actions and mumbled "hmmm... what food do they bring from the market this time??"

Apparently, what had been bought by the farmer on that day was a Mouse Trap. The Mouse became extremely panicky. It rushed to its lair and yelled frantically, "There is a mousetrap in the house…. now, in the house… is a mousetrap!!...." It then complained to the Chicken and screamed, "There is a mousetrap!" Then, the Chicken said, "Mr. Mouse! I am equally sad but it does not have anything to do with me." Then, the Mouse went away to see the Goat while yelling as before. The Goat answered indifferently, "I also sympathize… but there is nothing I can do.

Furthermore, it does not have anything to do with me." The Mouse then went to see the Cow. And he received the same response. "I am sorry… but the mousetrap is not dangerous at all for me. The size of me won’t fit in the mousetrap." With frustration the Mouse ran towards the jungle to see the Snake. Mr. Snake said, " Hey, you… the mousetrap of that size does not endanger myself." In the end, the Mouse returned to its dwelling resignedly because it knows that it will face the danger alone. One night, the owner of the house was awakened by some beating sounds from his mousetrap indicating that something had taken the bait. As he was checking his mousetrap, apparently a poisonous snake had been trapped. The tail of the snake that had been pressed between the trap caused it to become more ferocious and it attacked the house owner’s wife. Even though the husband managed to kill the snake, he could not rescue his wife on time. He rushed his wife to the hospital. A few days later, his wife could already go home but she was still feeling a bit feverish. Therefore, the wife asked her husband to make her a chicken soup because she believed that the chicken soup could make her fever subside. Without further ado, the husband immediately slaughtered the Chicken and had it turned into a chicken soup. For some days later, her illness was still not cured. So, a friend suggested that she should try and eat goat liver. The husband then slaughtered his Goat without further delay. But alas! The wife was still not cured and eventually she succumbed to her death. Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un. Many people came to visit her janaza and pay condolence. Due to the love of the husband for his wife, he did not have the heart to see the people coming without having anything to serve for them. Thus, he slaughtered his Cow and had its meat dished up for the guests who came to pay a visit. From a distance... the Mouse observed the incident in total sadness. A few days later he saw the Mouse Trap not being used anymore. The Moral behind this story: ONE DAY.... WHEN YOU HEAR THAT SOMEONE IS IN DISTRESS AND THINK THAT IT IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM... THINK AGAIN! In the same context, when we hear Muslims being oppressed anywhere in the world, be it near or far, whether it be in Palestine or Philippines… never think that it is only the internal problem of that country and that it does not concern us. We might find ourselves ending up like the fate of the Snake, Chicken, Goat or Cow.
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